On the first day of school eve, Sicily lost a tooth. Her sixth. I say sixth, she says seventh. She is convinced that there was a third in her top two front that just isn't growing in a new one because there is no room. I can see her confusion - the little snaggletooth.I got up early to run and dress nicely in a skirt and blouse - I wanted to look good for them both. Wandered into Sicily's room at 6:45 to wake her.
I sang a good morning song, one that my Mom sang to me when I was little. Peppy and light.
Sicily (7) rolled out of bed, sleepy-eyed and disheveled. She reached under her pillow and seemed unimpressed by her tooth fairy money - an amount that would have staggered me when I was little. She announced her breakfast choice at my urging, got moving, and I went into her little brother Jack's (5) room.
Another round of the good morning song. Jack squinted his eyes, looked up at me, and announced that he wasn't going to school. "Jack H. won't be there." His best friend from last year transferred to a new school, and he was sad. He injected the emotion into the morning. He refused to eat breakfast, announced he would not get dressed, and retired to his closet cross-legged on the floor in his underwear. I sighed, still trying to be cheery, and went to find Sicily.
Sicily was lying supine on the couch in the kitchen, rumpled in malaise. I chided her to get up, brush her teeth, brush her hair, and get her shoes on. While I was juggling breakfast and Jack's foul mood, I heard a wail from Sicily's room. It seemed that the shoes she had bought with my Mom less than two weeks earlier didn't fit, and there was no other option. I discussed with her the fact that new shoes sometimes need to be worn in, but even without the shoelaces she decided she couldn't even take two steps. So I wrote a note to her teacher promising to address the problem in a timely fashion and put her in forbidden crocs.
I asked her, "Sicily, would you please try to cheer Jack up while I am fixing breakfast? Help him get excited about his first day of school?" I had checked - he was still sulking in his underwear.
"How can I get Jack excited when I'm not? My best friend is in another class (she had seen it on the roster). I'm miserable."
Whew. This was not the way the first day of school was supposed to go. I marched into Jack's room and got tough. He was whining and begging me to put his clothes on. "Jack. You are five years old. You can get dressed yourself, or go back to the pre-school class and take naps. If you can't get ready, I will take away tickets and you might not get to pick out of treasure chest on Friday."
They finally made it to the breakfast table and we had a short reprieve of happiness and interested guesswork about their new year as they both ate a hearty breakfast. Then, as I was trying to find my pager and get the camera for pics, they dissolved into picking at each other and fighting. Sicily refused to be in a picture with Jack, and he howled and banged on the piano. I finally convinced her to let him be in the picture, and here is what I got:
Not perfect (why is the font suddenly blue? Oh well) but I love it. That's us. Not perfect, but we do our best.
As I pulled into the carpool line both kids screamed excitedly as they recognized teachers and students from the year before. They tumbled out of the car at their respective drop-off points happy and smiling. I was glad to hear tonight that they had a great day.
Yeah, that sums up life with kids sometimes! You can try your best to be upbeat, but at there is usually a light threat issued at some point, a sprinkling of laughter, and a healthy dose of sibling skirmishes. Glad they had a good first day in the end!!
ReplyDeleteKayTar is bouncing off the walls excited about going back to school, and BubTar would prefer summer to last forever. I did get a half smile out of him when I told him who his teacher will be. We'll see how our turn goes next week!
Hilarious! It reminds me of my first day of me peds rotation, when the peds course director told us about his daughter's refusal to go to school.
ReplyDeleteIt got to the point where she refused to get dressed, eat, get out of bed, so he and his wife picked her up and dragged her kicking and screaming to the school, and told her she would be deposited in the playground in her underwear if she didn't put her clothes on. fortunately, it worked.
It was kind of reassuring to hear that even pediatricians deal with these problems from time to time!
(Why aren't crocs allowed?)
Hope your first day is a little smoother than mine, Kyla.
ReplyDeleteRock Star MD Girl - I have used the underwear threat more than once. I guess the crocs aren't sturdy enough. They want Mary Janes and simple solid-colored tennis shoes. Maybe it goes better with the uniform. I've never asked. It's hard enough to keep all the rules straight - much less seek out all the meanings:)
Oh my goodness, I'm so happy to read this! I mean, not happy that it was a struggle for you, but thrilled to hear how normal and widespread our family's struggles are.
ReplyDeleteAnd what is with the tooth fairy inflation?? We've got that too.
Oh, such drama! Glad they finally ended up excited by the time they got to school.
ReplyDeleteOur first day of school is this Monday. Wish me luck.
Anon - Yes, they are no longer happy with coins. They want paper.
ReplyDeleteMomTFH - Good luck!!! Hopefully there won't be as much drama with two boys.
When KayTar lost her first tooth, my mom gave her bonus money, 50 cents. KayTar replied, "Hey! I want the green stuff!" LOL. Coins are a no go.
ReplyDeleteWe don't allow our kids to wear crocs or flip-flops because they fall off easily--especially on the playgound when they are running around or climbing on playground equipment. Also, they are more likely to slip and fall when they are wearing them.
ReplyDeletePerhaps they have the same reasoning?
Kyla - yes, they want the green stuff these days.
ReplyDeleteAnon - I think your reasoning is sound. My kids are having a hard time with real shoes after a summer of Crocs and flip-flops.
Giz, I love their expressions in that photo. =)
ReplyDeleteC looks pissed. J looks strained. It cracked me up. The individuals were much better, but not nearly as much character. Thanks, KC!
ReplyDeleteJ was so happy about his backpack reflectors lighting up in the pics - he thought he looked like a magical superhero. I loved it!